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Different aspects:
Sun Trine Neptune
The trine of composite Sun and Neptune indicates that there is a good deal of idealism in this relationship. You will feel that it is an extraordinary union between two souls, perhaps even a spiritual union. Many of the thoughts you want to communicate to each other will not have to be spoken, for you will know beforehand what the other person is thinking.
The spiritualizing power of Neptune tends to negate the physical realm. For this reason, a relationship with a strong Neptune, such as this one, is likely to be platonic rather than physical.
In a friendship it is perfectly all right to commune at such a high level, ignoring practicality. But in a love relationship, especially marriage, practical concerns have to be dealt with, and it may be difficult to bring yourselves down to that level.
But because Neptune rules self-sacrifice, one of the strongest bonds between you will be your willingness to give selflessly to each other at any time.
Moon Trine Neptune
In any kind of relationship with the trine of composite Moon and Neptune, idealism will be a dominant theme. You will feel that the spiritual union between you is higher and more soulful than in any ordinary relationship. Such a union is a real possibility, but it will not come automatically. What will come with this aspect is the expectation of spirituality, not necessarily the fact.
The love you experience together will be a very ideal and spiritual love, and it may be platonic rather than sexual. There will be a strong feeling that you have a true soul union. Much that would ordinarily be expressed in words about your feelings will be communicated in a subliminal and intuitive way that others will not even be aware of.
This relationship will also affect your philosophy of life by making you more idealistic and concerned with spiritual matters than you were before.
The demands this aspect can make upon a relationship are great, but so are the potentials. A truly ideal and spiritual relationship of a most uncommon sort is a real possibility. But remember - so also is a relationship in which you wander about in an idealistic romantic fog. The choice is yours.
Venus Sextile Neptune
Like all composite Venus-Neptune aspects, the sextile increases the idealistic and romantic tendencies of a relationship. A friendship becomes more than an ordinary encounter, for each of you idealizes the other in some almost magical way. In fact, this aspect favors friendship more than a love affair, because like the other Venus-Neptune combinations, it inclines toward a nonsexual relationship.
Nevertheless, this aspect does not mean that a would-be sexual relationship will be unsuccessful. It simply means that it will have a strongly spiritual tone in addition to its sexual and physical dimensions.
It should open your eyes to the sublime aspects of the world around you and make you more receptive to beauty. At its best, this can be a bond between true soul-mates who are matched spiritually as well as physically.
Uranus Sextile Neptune
Uranus sextile Neptune occurs very frequently in the charts of people born in the late 1960s. Its symbolic meaning is alternate states of consciousness. It was in those years that young people first became involved with LSD and the other psychedelic drugs and with the general issue of consciousness expansion.
In a relationship in which this aspect is prominently placed, the two of you will probably seek to explore new kinds of consciousness in the way you relate to each other. You may be interested in spiritual growth, mysticism, the occult, or other such phenomena.
Your relationship is likely to be unusually idealistic, especially since many of you have Neptune in Libra, the sign of relationships. You may experience it as a way of transcending the ordinary.
Neptune Sextile Pluto
These two planets move very slowly. In the second half of the 20th century they were running at the same speed and formed a sextile for many years, which many living couples have now in their composite horoscope. An individual interpretation of this aspect would not be appropriate.
Mercury Trine Ascendant
The trine of composite Mercury and Ascendant is a very good aspect in any kind of relationship. It has the good effect of increasing self-understanding and mutual understanding between the two of you, and it allows you to communicate meaningfully. You can easily express the important feelings about your relationship that people often have trouble saying to each other.
At the same time, this relationship will have a broadening effect on the two of you. You will become more tolerant of the differences between you as well as between yourselves and others.
It may well be that intellectual concerns such as education and philosophy will become important in this relationship. In these areas your basic mental and intellectual affinity will enable you to achieve much together. Even if this is not a working or professional relationship in any way, shared interests will play a very important part.
Sun Opposition Venus
This is one of the strongest indications of a love relationship between two people, even in a friendship. It does not primarily indicate a sexual relationship; instead it signifies love, pure and simple. The attraction indicated by this aspect is so powerful that it can bring together people who are incompatible by ordinary criteria.
If the relationship is laden with conflicts, even a strong feeling of love between you may turn to hatred. In most cases, however, this will be a very fine personal relationship.

Sun Opposition Uranus
The opposition of composite Sun and Uranus suggests that this will be an upsetting relationship in many ways. The more traditional your ideas about the roles you play with each other, the more disturbing the relationship will be.
The central problem here is that one or the other of you will constantly challenge the other's most cherished ideas. Another possible effect of this aspect is that the relationship will present a challenge to the standards of the community in which you live.
In a sense, this problem could help your relationship, because outside pressures might drive the two of you closer together.

Sun Opposition Pluto
In a relationship with composite Sun opposition Pluto, the most difficult problem will be power struggles. There is a real danger that if this relationship breaks up it will degenerate into open warfare.
One or both of you must learn to curb your desire to dominate the other. When the power of Pluto is misused, the response tends to be violent, and no matter what you think, with this aspect the power is likely to be misused.
There is a danger that through struggles for domination one of you may emerge so much the loser that you will not easily be able to recover a sense of pride and self-confidence.

Sun Trine Moon
The trine of Sun and Moon in the composite chart is an excellent indication of compatibility. It makes true love and friendship possible, partly because the two of you are able to accept each other and allow the other person to be whatever he or she is.
The principle represented by the Sun and Moon together is wholeness. The trine of these two means that as a couple you are capable of that same wholeness. Such a relationship is characterized by a lack of tension and conflict.
Any type of relationship is favorably affected by this aspect, but a sexual one is especially favored, because sexuality is one of the most basic expressions of the Sun-Moon polarity.
Moon Trine Saturn
The trine of composite Moon and Saturn produces a highly stable and consistent relationship. In a love relationship, this aspect makes your love for each other steady and sober. If this is a friendship, it will be an enduring one. What you won't have with this aspect is the wildly romantic, unstable kind of love that many people seek out. This is an indicator of a serious relationship, one that is only for those who are tired of playing around and want something real and enduring.
You are likely to share the attitude that although you both have emotional needs, they must always be governed by a realistic, pragmatic approach to life.
The two of you are also probably quite reflective about the nature of your relationship and quite self-critical.
Mars Trine Saturn
The trine of composite Mars and Saturn tends to lock the two of you into patterns of self- expression that continue to operate even when most inappropriate. Like the sextile, this aspect indicates habits in a relationship. You tend to develop set ways of thinking that are very difficult to get away from, and therefore you find it hard to see matters as they really are.
You both must learn to be more flexible in your thinking about the relationship and avoid responding to each other in automatic ways.
In any personal relationship, but especially in a sexual one, it is important to give each other room to be what you are. If you can each grant freedom of self-expression to the other, many of the ill effects of this aspect will be overcome.
Jupiter Trine Saturn
The trine of Jupiter and Saturn in the composite chart gives your relationship a steady quality that is quite enviable. You go on from day to day, avoiding most extremes of mood. You can depend on each other always being there. Both of you have the ability to accept each other for what you are and tolerate each other's foibles.
When you have to plan together for the future, you are equally careful without being overcautious. You act only after weighing all the factors, and you usually act at the right time, for your sense of timing together is excellent.
Regardless of the original goals of your relationship, if you take advantage of these abilities, you should be better able to ride out the difficult times than many other couples.
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
The conjunction of the Moon and Jupiter in a composite chart is a very favorable indication for any kind of personal relationship. You feel warm toward each other, and you can express your feelings easily and with enthusiasm.
At the same time, you respect each other's emotions. You feel quite protective of your partner and try to keep him or her from being emotionally hurt by others. You have a great deal of respect for each other's freedom and individual rights.
When disputes do arise, you will try to deal with them in a very high-minded manner. You will discuss the issues openly and try to resolve them in a way that is fair to both of you.

Moon Conjunct Mars
The conjunction of composite Moon and composite Mars indicates that you arouse very strong feelings in each other, but by itself it does not indicate whether they are good or bad feelings.
In a love relationship, for example, this aspect indicates that you will have a very strong emotional involvement. The relationship will probably stir up both positive and negative emotions in both of you.
If your relationship is basically good, you will simply experience a heightened emotional involvement, although with a greater tendency to quarrel. But if your relationship is not otherwise very sound, it will be destroyed by the fighting that this aspect produces.
One of the strong points of this aspect is that in a sexual relationship it creates a good deal of sexual energy.
Moon Square Ascendant
The square of composite Moon and Ascendant places great emphasis on emotional fulfillment within a relationship. This is a relationship that will get nowhere without strong emotional interaction between you. The important point is that your backgrounds give you compatible attitudes about the world.
This relationship will very likely cause each of you to be very attached to elements in your past, so it is important that these be elements that bring you together rather than drive you apart. Your overall compatibility is the only way to judge this. At any rate, watch out for unconscious attitudes from your past that affect the way you get along together now. Live in the here and now with each other, and do not let the past get in your way.
If your relationship is not running smoothly, people around you will find out very quickly. Your emotions as a couple are very quickly transmitted to others, even without any particular idea of conciliating them. You both are more concerned with the relationship between you at all levels than with how it looks to others.
Mars Conjunct Jupiter
The conjunction of Mars and Jupiter in the composite chart denotes a relationship that has a great deal of energy, either physical or psychological. You like to be active and to do things together. Some couples may work this energy out by participating in sports together, and others may do so by sharing work. One thing is clear: whatever you do together will be successful. Also, you approach whatever you do together with optimism and the expectation of success, which aids you in accomplishing your objectives.
The Mars-Jupiter conjunction creates a relationship that favors ego-expression; that is, you can do what you really want to do, and you each can be the kind of person you really want to be.
In a sexual relationship, this aspect helps to make the physical expression of your love good and satisfying. Sexual expression acts as a solid basis for the whole relationship, and yet it does not remain the only positive quality. It seems as though everything you do together works out for the best.
Jupiter Square Ascendant
Normally, the square of composite Jupiter and Ascendant is a good aspect. It helps to make a relationship work so that the two of you can further each other's chosen path in life rather than get in the way of it. This is accomplished in two ways.
On the one hand, the two of you have some understanding of what you are doing with your lives, at least as concerns each other. And in addition, you also know how to work together so that you support and further each other's plans.
On the other hand, this aspect makes it easy for you to reinforce each other in your intimate personal lives. You are emotionally supportive and try to help each other through difficult times, including periods of emotional problems.
However, problems can sometimes arise, and if they do, many of the good effects of the Ascendant-Jupiter square are then reversed. Instead of supporting each other's egos and aiding each other in your life courses, one of you takes advantage of the other, who may have to play second fiddle to the first partner's ego-trip.
Moon Conjunct Mars
The conjunction of composite Moon and composite Mars indicates that you arouse very strong feelings in each other, but by itself it does not indicate whether they are good or bad feelings.
In a love relationship, for example, this aspect indicates that you will have a very strong emotional involvement. The relationship will probably stir up both positive and negative emotions in both of you.
If your relationship is basically good, you will simply experience a heightened emotional involvement, although with a greater tendency to quarrel. But if your relationship is not otherwise very sound, it will be destroyed by the fighting that this aspect produces.
One of the strong points of this aspect is that in a sexual relationship it creates a good deal of sexual energy.
Moon Square Ascendant
The square of composite Moon and Ascendant places great emphasis on emotional fulfillment within a relationship. This is a relationship that will get nowhere without strong emotional interaction between you. The important point is that your backgrounds give you compatible attitudes about the world.
This relationship will very likely cause each of you to be very attached to elements in your past, so it is important that these be elements that bring you together rather than drive you apart. Your overall compatibility is the only way to judge this. At any rate, watch out for unconscious attitudes from your past that affect the way you get along together now. Live in the here and now with each other, and do not let the past get in your way.
If your relationship is not running smoothly, people around you will find out very quickly. Your emotions as a couple are very quickly transmitted to others, even without any particular idea of conciliating them. You both are more concerned with the relationship between you at all levels than with how it looks to others.
Venus Conjunct Uranus
With Venus conjunct Uranus in the composite chart, you will have to keep certain points in mind in order to get the most out of your relationship.
If this is a sexual relationship, it is very likely that your feelings for each other arose suddenly. But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move.
A relationship like this shakes your established thought patterns and gives you both the opportunity to find something new in yourselves.
This relationship may very well change your life. Give yourselves the freedom to go where it takes you.

Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus conjunct Pluto in the composite chart signifies the power of love as a transforming agent. In this relationship, whether it is a friendship or a love affair, you are seeking something more than love in the ordinary sense. Consequently, everything about your being together becomes extremely important.
In a sexual relationship, physical lovemaking is approached with an intensity that can make the experience very powerful and beautiful.
At any rate this is not likely to be a casual relationship. You will be intensely involved with each other. Love can be transformed into a power struggle if one or both of you tries to use the relationship as a tool for manipulating the other. The victim is powerless to do anything about it, and a strange love-hate tension is set up. When such a situation finally explodes, it can be disastrous.
Obviously this is not a relationship to play with. You must enter into it with serious intentions of making something good of it. You will both have great power over each other, so use it well.
Uranus Conjunct Pluto
The conjunction of composite Uranus and Pluto is quite common in the charts of people born in the middle of the 1960s.
In a composite chart, this aspect indicates that there are times of great change in your relationship.
Wherever this aspect falls in the composite chart is an area in which the two of you must display considerable flexibility and willingness to adapt. If you try to resist the changes that must come in your relationship, you will experience an upheaval that will make it very difficult for your relationship to survive. On the other hand, if you can adapt and accept the challenges, your relationship will be revitalized and renewed. Pluto means death to the old order, but it also means the creative birth of the new. You must learn to look forward to this change.