I have two Indigo/Crystal children and one with strong Blue, I am Indigo with Sensitive Tan/Blue/Crystal, and my DH has Blue/Sensitive Tan and Indigo traits himself. It is really interesting in our household. I am sending my grown son this link to take the test I think now. He has always followed his own path and I will be interested to see where he falls too.
My strongly Indigo daughter Amanda is pretty good at fitting in at preschool so far and seems to be able to camoflauge her traits that might make one think she might fall on a spectrum, but I see them at home. As her ped put it, she is so far ahead of all of us she might appear to be behind to anyone who didn't know better.
Wise man
Anyway, I understand having to fit in to survive, and I can tell you we get pretty good at it over time, so hopefully she will adapt and realize she can do her thing but make it fit into society where it has to. I agree you can't keep us down for long. I'm sorry it's like fthat for all of you, but things have a way of working themselves out for the best in the long run, so hopefully this will be the case with her.
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As the saying goes, when a door slams shut in one place a window opens somewhere else. After staring at the door for many years, it finally occured to me to go look for the open window. I discovered I like sunlight and warmth much more than peeling old doors anyway, so I climbed out the window and reveled in my discovery. I will never sit behind a closed door again, no matter how comfortable my chair becomes. Me
Mel, I'm glad you found your own open window and stepped through it.