This might ONLY be interesting for Trip ;)

[thePet]

This is R and I’s composite relationship chart from www.astro.com . I first read a short version of it about two weeks after I met him and was thinking… ‚yeah RIGHT’. Then, I looked at other relationship charts with me and other people and none of them showed any of what it said in that one.

Now we’ve been together 9 months, and reading this is blowing me away, because it SO accurately describes our relationship. It is really neat even though there is of course some difficult issues to overcome just like in any other relationship. What's good though is GREAT


Composite chart:

The Composite horoscope is a symbolic chart, derived mathematically and never represented by a real planetary configuration on the sky. For all planetary pairs, for example both Suns in the natal charts of the partners, the Composite Sun is determined as the mid-point in between. Also the MC (Medium Coeli or cusp of the 10th house) is determined by this mid-point technique. So far all astrologers proceed the same way to get a Composite.


Petra Bean (female)
born on 8 June 1970 local time 11:40 am in Salzburg, AUS
U.T. 10:40 13e02, 47n48 sid. time 04:37:44

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree

Sun Gemini 17°13'30 in house 10
Moon Leo 6°39'54 in house 11
Mercury Taurus 23°32'41 in house 9
Venus Cancer 20°09'53 in house 11
Mars Cancer 4°04'09 in house 10
Jupiter Libra 26°24'18 in house 2
Saturn Taurus 16°40'12 in house 9
Uranus Libra 4°39'45 in house 1
Neptune Scorpio 29°02'06 in house 3
Pluto Virgo 24°40'51 in house 1
True Node Pisces 5°59'12 in house 6

Reinhard M (male)

born on 21 Dec 1964 local time 7:30 am in Braunau am Inn, AUS
U.T. 06:30 13e02, 48n15 sid. time 13:21:34

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree

Sun Sagittarius 29°26'05 in house 1
Moon Cancer 29°59'38 in house 7
Mercury Sagittarius 23°44'12 in house 1
Venus Sagittarius 2°27'42 in house 11
Mars Virgo 20°24'56 in house 9
Jupiter Taurus 16°48'01 in house 5
Saturn Pisces 0°22'42 in house 2
Uranus Virgo 14°50'51 in house 8
Neptune Scorpio 19°00'54 in house 11
Pluto Virgo 16°19'46 end of house 8
True Node Gemini 23°00'16 in house 7

Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree

Sun Pisces 23°19'47 in house 5
Moon Leo 3°19'46 in house 9
Mercury Pisces 8°38'27 in house 4
Venus Virgo 26°18'47 in house 11
Mars Leo 12°14'32 in house 9
Jupiter Leo 6°36'09 in house 9
Saturn Aries 8°31'27 in house 5
Uranus Virgo 24°45'18 in house 11
Neptune Scorpio 24°01'30 in house 1
Pluto Virgo 20°30'18 in house 11
True Node Aries 29°29'44 in house 6

The Composite First House
The first house is the "persona" of a relationship. It indicates the kind of impression the relationship will make on its surroundings and how it will be viewed by others. It tells to what extent a couple will be regarded as a unit in their own right rather than as two seperate individuals.
The first house describes the impression the relationship gives rather than what it really is. A strong first house can be an indication of a relationship that is all show and no substance. Nevertheless, a strong first house is usually a sign of a significant relationship that will have a great impact on the lives of those involved. These relationships tend to be important ones.
Composite Neptune
Neptune in the composite chart is an energy that most people find quite difficult to handle. It has two quite separate areas of meaning that are ultimately connected, although they do not seem related on the surface.
First of all, Neptune is related to disappointment, delusion, deceit, falsehood, and the gradual disappearance of things. Yet it also represents whatever you idealize, legitimately and otherwise - that which is spiritual and mystical, which is actually at the root of love in its most spiritual sense, even more than Venus. It is the two-sidedness of Neptune that is so difficult to deal with.
To a considerable extent, all true love is based on your idealization of some aspect of the other person. In fact, if the Neptune energy were not working to some extent, you would not have been attracted to that person in the first place.
If you can hold your ideals and still be able to deal with reality, Neptune may even help you realize your ideals.
Neptune in the chart tells about those areas of the relationship that are idealized, maybe dangerously so. It tells about the depth of spiritual communication and about the extent to which all communication is disrupted by your illusions about each other.
Neptune in the First House 1st hs
With composite Neptune in the first house of a chart, there is a great danger that the two of you don't understand what this relationship is all about. Or you may have a fairly clear idea about the direction you should take as a couple, but you have difficulty understanding where you are at a particular time.
Typical of the problems that Neptune induces is a situation that can occur in a love relationship. One of you thinks that everything is beautiful and ideal. But you will discover that something is radically wrong between you when you wake up one morning to find that the other person is gone, having been unhappy for months.
Another common Neptune pattern that applies here, is that one of you sacrifices yourself to "save" the other from some problem. This is usually the rankest form of self-delusion, because one or both of you is using this pattern as a device for working out your own hangups.
Unfortunately there are endless possible sources of self-delusion. But a first-house Neptune does signify that you must work for a realistic relationship and not let your ideals overwhelm your ability to see the truth.

The Composite Fourth House
The fourth house represents more than the home, especially in the composite chart. It indicates the basic roots of a relationship - both literally, in geographical terms, and figuratively, in terms of mental and emotional background. The fourth house signifies the innermost depths of a relationship, which may be so far within as to be invisible on the surface.
On top of this, the fourth house does mean collective 'home'. The home is where a couple's deepest emotional and psychological attitudes have their strongest impact. The home is in many ways the physical embodiment of one's innermost being, and is therefore influenced by anything that affects the inner life. A composite chart with a strong fourth house usually indicates that the two people share their innermost lives and that they probably share their actual place of residence.
Composite Mercury
Mercury is the planet of mind and communication. In a relationship it signifies the quality and manner of communication between the two of you.
A well-placed Mercury in the chart indicates that you have some degree of intellectual understanding and can communicate with each other. While it is desirable, especially in an emotional relationship, that two people have an intuitive, unspoken understanding, it is also highly desirable that you be able to talk easily with each other.
Unfortunately, very often, especially in a love relationship, people think that if they truly love each other, they should be able to feel what the other is thinking without having to say anything. If there is no communication between you, all you have left is the image created in your mind in the absence of real understanding. This is what a badly placed Mercury often signifies.
Basically, Mercury signifies your ability to speak each other's language, to express your thoughts in ways that the other can understand.
Mercury in the Fourth House 4th hs
Mercury in the fourth house of a composite chart indicates that the two of you are able to communicate about your deepest feelings and the most deeply buried attributes of your relationship, matters that normally would be unconscious.
The fourth house also rules one's home - in this case the home you set up together, if that is appropriate to your relationship. Since Mercury rules thought and communication, this placement means that you are likely to make your home as intellectually stimulating as possible. You will surround yourselves with fine books or whatever else interests you, such as materials for hobbies or crafts. You are also fond of having people get together in your home for good stimulating conversation.
As is usual when Mercury is in a position that concerns feelings, the only real danger here is that you may overintellectualize the deep inner aspects of yourselves.
If this warning is heeded, a fourth-house Mercury can be very helpful, precisely because it does help to improve communication about your feelings and inner selves, which in most relationships are difficult to discuss.
The Composite Fifth House
The fifth house in the composite chart has many of the same meanings that it has in a conventional chart - love affairs, children (where this is appropriate), creativity, self- expression, etc. The interpretation of self-expression, however, is especially crititcal in a composite chart.
The composite fifth house represents, first of all, to what extent the relationship provides a setting for the individuals to be themselves in the most genuine and honest way possible. Many relationships survive only because each partner puts up a false front to the other. The fifth house signifies the ability of the individuals to be real in each other's presence.
The fifth is also the house of love affaires and friendship. But the very nature of this house means that it is not for people who are trying to operate as a single unit. In a fifth house relationship the two people are together but still individuals.
Composite Sun
The house position of the Sun (along with that of the Moon) tells a great deal about the basic thrust of the relationship, what it exists for, and the major issues it will revolve around. The aspects to the Sun refer to the most important energy patterns in the horoscope, the kinds of behavior that will be most important between you.
A badly placed Sun with difficult aspects can be an important factor in making a relationship difficult or even unbearable. It indicates that the basic energies of the relationship are not being handled well and that something is fundamentally wrong between you. On the other hand, a well-placed and well-aspected Sun will help a relationship survive even in difficult times.
If the Sun is well placed in the chart, the relationship will be experienced as free and spontaneous self-expression, requiring little effort. Of course, other factors can create difficulties, even when the Sun is well placed, but a good Sun in a composite is very desirable.
Sun in the Fifth House 5th hs
Sun in the fifth house of the composite chart is one of the best positions for a sexual relationship. It is also the house of creativity, children, self-expression, amusement, and good times in general. The Sun in the fifth house gives a strong emphasis to any of these elements.
In a personal relationship, a composite fifth-house Sun implies that your relationship will give you good opportunities for self-expression, for being yourself and enjoying it.
This is a good position for friendship because it indicates a light-hearted relationship in which you genuinely enjoy each other's company.
In a relationship with this placement, you must give each other room to be what you are.
Composite Saturn
Saturn is always a very complicated symbol. It has many meanings, some of which are difficult to deal with. To begin with, it often represents those areas of the relationship that are likely to be a source of insecurity. You must learn to relax about those areas of the relationship that are most influenced by Saturn.
Saturn also refers to limitations on the relationship, which are often more apparent than real. Saturn is an inhibitor, representing the aspects of reality that limit our efforts to expand and grow. The position of Saturn in the composite chart will tell a great deal about what areas of the relationship are most likely to be structured and even rigidified, if the influence is unchecked.
Saturn is not always difficult, however. Very often it indicates a lasting relationship that will endure. Much of the time you will respond to Saturn simply by accepting the reality it imposes and not expecting that which is impossible. In such instances Saturn replaces flamboyance with reliability.
At other times, however, Saturn's influence will make a relationship nearly impossible. When this happens, it is a reality that must be accepted. Properly handled, the experience of Saturn can be one of the most significant ways in which you learn how you will act in certain situations together. But it must be acknowledged that this process is not always particularly pleasant.

[thePet]

Saturn in the Fifth House 5th hs
The fifth is the house of fun and lightness, amusements and self-expression. It is also the house of love affairs. This placement tends to restrict the lighthearted sense of joy that a love relationship should have, subordinating joy to considerations of duty and responsibility.
This much can be said in your favor; you will really try to make the best of it, because you are realistic about life. You probably take life much too seriously, which in the long run tends to magnify problems out of all proportion to their real importance.
In a marriage with this house placement you may have difficulty in freely expressing your love for each other. But this is also the house of children, and Saturn here may deny children or at least create problems in having them. It would be a very good idea for the two of you to plan on having no more than one or two children. If you concentrate on that one or two, the best manifestations of this placement can become apparent.

The Composite Ninth House
The composite ninth house signifies the overall view of the world taken by the persons involved in a relationship. The phrase "consciousness-expanding" is often used, because a ninth house relationship usually broadens the views of the two people. They are exposed to new ideas and forced to think in terms of a broader spectrum of possibilities than before.
Since the ninth is the house of ideas and consciousness, a strong ninth house enables people to communicate at a very high level. They can really understand each other and share their views with one another. Exchanging ideas plays a very important role, and they will make a more than usual effort to understand each other.
Of course, difficult aspects in this house can turn this around so that failure of communication becomes a major factor that weakens the relationship.
Composite Moon
In a composite chart, the Moon indicates how well the relationship acts as a medium of emotional expression for the two of you. Can you be honest and open with each other about your feelings? Can one of you reveal his or her feelings without being rejected by the other? Yet in a close relationship it is very important to be able to deal with each other on this level. For this reason alone the position of the Moon is very important for describing compatibility.
The Moon also represents basic structures within one's personality: habits, unconsciously motivated behavior, and their sources - one's past, origins, family, and home life. If the moon is well placed in the composite chart, the two of you will feel that you have something in common. A badly placed Moon, however, can create a sense of alienation, of being different from each other, that will make it difficult for you to get along.
The house position of the Moon in the composite chart shows the area in which you feel, or ought to feel, that you have the most in common.
In contrast to the Sun, which shows what the relationship does, the Moon indicates the subjective feelings of harmony and empathy that you have for each other, even in difficult times.
Moon in the Ninth House 9th hs
With the composite Moon in the ninth house, there is a strong feeling between you that you share basic attitudes about the world and philosophies of life. You feel that being together greatly expands your awareness. Even if your backgrounds are quite different, communication between you will not be difficult.
At its best, this is a good position for learning and growth within a relationship. This position is strongest in situations that emphasize communication and exchange of ideas.
In a personal relationship, this placement by itself works more to produce friendship than love.
Composite Jupiter
Jupiter in the composite chart signifies the areas that will provide a solid basis for growth through the relationship.
The house position of Jupiter designates what aspect of your relationship will be emphasized as a growth area. The two of you will be able to depend on that area for sustenance together, and unlike other aspects of your relationship, it will not be the cause of conflict and difficulty.
Nevertheless, what Jupiter brings to a relationship should not be taken totally for granted. There is always a danger that you may overextend yourselves in the area in which Jupiter is significant, which can convert it into a source of difficulty. Influence is not usually a major source of trouble in a chart and can usually be counted on to bring benevolent results.
Jupiter in the Ninth House 9th hs
Jupiter in the ninth house of the composite chart is in many ways "at home. The ninth is the house of higher consciousness, expanded awareness, philosophy, and one's overall philosophy of life, as well as of long journeys. These are also the concerns of Jupiter.
This placement indicates a relationship that will expand your awareness in many ways by presenting you with new perspectives and new experiences. It may be that at some time you will travel extensively together. However, it is far more likely that the influence will come out as strong intellectual interests in common. At the same time you will evolve a world-view in which honor and ethics play a very important part.
Most important in terms of your immediate experience is that this will be a growth relationship. Regardless of what happens, you both will become more complete human beings than you were before.
In particular, this position favors any association that deals with intellectual or educational concerns.
Composite Mars
The basic principle of Mars is the ego-drive, the energy by which you sustain your sense of being an individual, both toward the world and toward other people.
If you have a sound sense of yourself, as signified by a well-placed Mars, you will have little difficulty getting along with others. But if Mars is badly placed, your sense of your own being is deficient, and you will get into conflicts that make it impossible to relate to others.
In a composite chart, Mars signifies your ability to create an environment within the relationship for both of you to express yourselves fully without threatening each other and provoking destructive conflicts. Some - perhaps quite a lot of - conflict in a relationship is inevitable, and conflict per se should not be suppressed. But your ego-drives must be basically compatible within the relationship, or nothing can be accomplished.
In a sexual relationship, Mars also rules the sex drive. A successful sexual relationship requires that both Venus, the ability to relate, and Mars, the ego-drive, be in good condition.
Mars in the Ninth House 9th hs
Composite Mars in the ninth, the house of the higher mind and long journeys, indicates a strong involvement with ideas, beliefs, and philosophies of life in this relationship. If your ideas and attitudes toward life are compatible, you will work very hard together to protect them, and you will try to convince others of the rightness of what you are doing.
If your attitudes are not compatible, you will waste a lot of energy trying to convince each other of them, causing much conflict in the process. You are likely to react to opposition almost as if your lives were in danger. Be careful of this and try to expand your views so that they can encompass those of other people.
This placement of Mars may also indicate that the two of you will do some work together that involves traveling over long distances. Or it can mean working together in some academic or intellectual field.
The Composite Eleventh House
The eleventh house is the house of friendship. It does not limit a relationship to friendship, but it helps two people to be friendly in whatever they are doing together. Lovers who have a strong eleventh house will also be friends. Business people with a strong eleventh house will be friends as well as professional associates.
Because it is also the house of hopes and wishes, a well-aspected eleventh house gives a relationship a strong sense of shared ideals. Both persons are looking for the same things in life.
Difficult aspects may bring about conflicts of ideals in a relationship. Or friendship may be denied, limiting a relationship to a purely sexual one or a purely professional one, without friendship.
Composite Venus
Venus is obviously important in any kind of relationship, because it rules both love and the ability to form relationships, particularly those based on emotion. If Venus is badly placed, you may have a long-term relationship, but it will not have much love. On the other hand, if Venus is strong and well placed, but other relationship indications are not good, the two of you may be drawn to each other very strongly even though you are not really compatible. This creates a very stormy, short-lived relationship.
In its deepest meaning, Venus represents the principle in the universe that draws two entities together by natural and spontaneous inner forces, much the way positive and negative charges attract each other.
The position of Venus in the composite chart indicates how far this relationship will allow both of you to express yourselves through love. It also describes what part of your environment you most desire to bring into this experience. It is not necessary to have a good Venus in order to make a relationship survive, but a good Venus will make the relationship worth having.
Venus in the Eleventh House 11th hs
Composite Venus in the eleventh house is one of the best placements for an intimate personal relationship. The eleventh is the house of friendship, and at the very least, Venus here will help to make you friends. This position can also be a sign of a deep love affair.
Venus here is a good indication that the two of you have harmonious ideals. It can also mean that you idealize either the feeling of love or your relationship, which can be a problem if either of you is prone to unrealistic attitudes about feelings. But if both of you are reasonably realistic about yourselves, you will experience this relationship as something beautiful and ideal.
Composite Pluto
Pluto is the planet of death and regeneration. In a composite chart it represents those energies that cause a relationship to go through periods of heavy change. Its action is absolutely essential to prevent the stagnation that occurs when an old way of life has outlived its purpose.
Pluto operates with such tremendous power that it may be divorced from its "death and regeneration" aspect and be experienced purely as power. The power results from the inevitability of Pluto's transforming quality.
In a relationship, Pluto is very often experienced as power conflicts between the two of you. In a sexual relationship it also gives special power and impact to your emotions and makes every happening very dramatic and important.
The house position of Pluto indicates the area of the relationship in which there is most likely to be a conflict of power, either between the two of you or with the outside world. It also indicates which area of the relationship is most likely to be transformed through your being together and as a result which area is most likely to produce crises.
The aspects to Pluto indicate whether this energy will be experienced as difficult or easy and what other energy patterns it will be linked with.
Pluto in the Eleventh House 11th hs
Composite Pluto in the eleventh house brings to a relationship ideals and hopes that you will feel very strongly about and work very hard for. You both feel that you have not come together casually and that this association has great importance for your lives.
This kind of intensity attracts others who are similarly inclined. And since the eleventh is also the house of friends, this placement of Pluto signifies that your friends either are very emotionally intense people, or they possess some kind of power, or both.
An eleventh-house Pluto may also signify that the two of you are involved in large-scale humanitarian movements that seek to transform and regenerate the world, such as reform and revolutionary movements, movements of mass consciousness, and so forth.
Composite Uranus
Uranus is the planet of the unconventional and the unusual, at least in its ordinary manifestations. It can also reveal alternate views of reality that will help you to learn and grow. Unfortunately, this usually happens by means of a surprising upset that seems to completely invalidate your previous beliefs about life.
In a relationship it is important to let the areas most affected by Uranus be much freer than you might otherwise allow. The aspects to Uranus in the composite chart usually indicate the area of the relationship that you must release. Venus-Uranus aspects, in particular, represent relationships that must not be restrained from following their own course.
The house position indicates where Uranus is most effective, and that area must be treated most gently. Any attempt to make a basically Uranian characteristic conform to rules or expectations will only cause disturbances.
Uranus is simply an energy that insists on being given free rein. Your ability to handle it depends upon how free you are.
Uranus in the Eleventh House 11th hs
Uranus in the eleventh house of the composite chart signifies that your guiding ideals are quite different from the usual ideals in a relationship of this kind. The eleventh house represents the ideals of a relationship and the kinds of friends that you have as a couple.
While most people marry for love, companionship, or sex, with this placement you might marry for mutual intellectual stimulation, or to work together for a cause, or for some other unusual reason.
You may also find that as a couple you are attracted to a different set of friends, people you would never have become involved with except for something that this relationship has opened up in you. This is a reflection of the fact that your relationship has brought you new expectations of life and made you more open to a variety of experiences.

[thePet]

Different aspects:
Sun Trine Neptune
The trine of composite Sun and Neptune indicates that there is a good deal of idealism in this relationship. You will feel that it is an extraordinary union between two souls, perhaps even a spiritual union. Many of the thoughts you want to communicate to each other will not have to be spoken, for you will know beforehand what the other person is thinking.
The spiritualizing power of Neptune tends to negate the physical realm. For this reason, a relationship with a strong Neptune, such as this one, is likely to be platonic rather than physical.
In a friendship it is perfectly all right to commune at such a high level, ignoring practicality. But in a love relationship, especially marriage, practical concerns have to be dealt with, and it may be difficult to bring yourselves down to that level.
But because Neptune rules self-sacrifice, one of the strongest bonds between you will be your willingness to give selflessly to each other at any time.
Moon Trine Neptune
In any kind of relationship with the trine of composite Moon and Neptune, idealism will be a dominant theme. You will feel that the spiritual union between you is higher and more soulful than in any ordinary relationship. Such a union is a real possibility, but it will not come automatically. What will come with this aspect is the expectation of spirituality, not necessarily the fact.
The love you experience together will be a very ideal and spiritual love, and it may be platonic rather than sexual. There will be a strong feeling that you have a true soul union. Much that would ordinarily be expressed in words about your feelings will be communicated in a subliminal and intuitive way that others will not even be aware of.
This relationship will also affect your philosophy of life by making you more idealistic and concerned with spiritual matters than you were before.
The demands this aspect can make upon a relationship are great, but so are the potentials. A truly ideal and spiritual relationship of a most uncommon sort is a real possibility. But remember - so also is a relationship in which you wander about in an idealistic romantic fog. The choice is yours.
Venus Sextile Neptune
Like all composite Venus-Neptune aspects, the sextile increases the idealistic and romantic tendencies of a relationship. A friendship becomes more than an ordinary encounter, for each of you idealizes the other in some almost magical way. In fact, this aspect favors friendship more than a love affair, because like the other Venus-Neptune combinations, it inclines toward a nonsexual relationship.
Nevertheless, this aspect does not mean that a would-be sexual relationship will be unsuccessful. It simply means that it will have a strongly spiritual tone in addition to its sexual and physical dimensions.
It should open your eyes to the sublime aspects of the world around you and make you more receptive to beauty. At its best, this can be a bond between true soul-mates who are matched spiritually as well as physically.
Uranus Sextile Neptune
Uranus sextile Neptune occurs very frequently in the charts of people born in the late 1960s. Its symbolic meaning is alternate states of consciousness. It was in those years that young people first became involved with LSD and the other psychedelic drugs and with the general issue of consciousness expansion.
In a relationship in which this aspect is prominently placed, the two of you will probably seek to explore new kinds of consciousness in the way you relate to each other. You may be interested in spiritual growth, mysticism, the occult, or other such phenomena.
Your relationship is likely to be unusually idealistic, especially since many of you have Neptune in Libra, the sign of relationships. You may experience it as a way of transcending the ordinary.
Neptune Sextile Pluto
These two planets move very slowly. In the second half of the 20th century they were running at the same speed and formed a sextile for many years, which many living couples have now in their composite horoscope. An individual interpretation of this aspect would not be appropriate.
Mercury Trine Ascendant
The trine of composite Mercury and Ascendant is a very good aspect in any kind of relationship. It has the good effect of increasing self-understanding and mutual understanding between the two of you, and it allows you to communicate meaningfully. You can easily express the important feelings about your relationship that people often have trouble saying to each other.
At the same time, this relationship will have a broadening effect on the two of you. You will become more tolerant of the differences between you as well as between yourselves and others.
It may well be that intellectual concerns such as education and philosophy will become important in this relationship. In these areas your basic mental and intellectual affinity will enable you to achieve much together. Even if this is not a working or professional relationship in any way, shared interests will play a very important part.
Sun Opposition Venus
This is one of the strongest indications of a love relationship between two people, even in a friendship. It does not primarily indicate a sexual relationship; instead it signifies love, pure and simple. The attraction indicated by this aspect is so powerful that it can bring together people who are incompatible by ordinary criteria.
If the relationship is laden with conflicts, even a strong feeling of love between you may turn to hatred. In most cases, however, this will be a very fine personal relationship.

Sun Opposition Uranus
The opposition of composite Sun and Uranus suggests that this will be an upsetting relationship in many ways. The more traditional your ideas about the roles you play with each other, the more disturbing the relationship will be.
The central problem here is that one or the other of you will constantly challenge the other's most cherished ideas. Another possible effect of this aspect is that the relationship will present a challenge to the standards of the community in which you live.
In a sense, this problem could help your relationship, because outside pressures might drive the two of you closer together.

Sun Opposition Pluto
In a relationship with composite Sun opposition Pluto, the most difficult problem will be power struggles. There is a real danger that if this relationship breaks up it will degenerate into open warfare.
One or both of you must learn to curb your desire to dominate the other. When the power of Pluto is misused, the response tends to be violent, and no matter what you think, with this aspect the power is likely to be misused.
There is a danger that through struggles for domination one of you may emerge so much the loser that you will not easily be able to recover a sense of pride and self-confidence.

Sun Trine Moon
The trine of Sun and Moon in the composite chart is an excellent indication of compatibility. It makes true love and friendship possible, partly because the two of you are able to accept each other and allow the other person to be whatever he or she is.
The principle represented by the Sun and Moon together is wholeness. The trine of these two means that as a couple you are capable of that same wholeness. Such a relationship is characterized by a lack of tension and conflict.
Any type of relationship is favorably affected by this aspect, but a sexual one is especially favored, because sexuality is one of the most basic expressions of the Sun-Moon polarity.
Moon Trine Saturn
The trine of composite Moon and Saturn produces a highly stable and consistent relationship. In a love relationship, this aspect makes your love for each other steady and sober. If this is a friendship, it will be an enduring one. What you won't have with this aspect is the wildly romantic, unstable kind of love that many people seek out. This is an indicator of a serious relationship, one that is only for those who are tired of playing around and want something real and enduring.
You are likely to share the attitude that although you both have emotional needs, they must always be governed by a realistic, pragmatic approach to life.
The two of you are also probably quite reflective about the nature of your relationship and quite self-critical.
Mars Trine Saturn
The trine of composite Mars and Saturn tends to lock the two of you into patterns of self- expression that continue to operate even when most inappropriate. Like the sextile, this aspect indicates habits in a relationship. You tend to develop set ways of thinking that are very difficult to get away from, and therefore you find it hard to see matters as they really are.
You both must learn to be more flexible in your thinking about the relationship and avoid responding to each other in automatic ways.
In any personal relationship, but especially in a sexual one, it is important to give each other room to be what you are. If you can each grant freedom of self-expression to the other, many of the ill effects of this aspect will be overcome.
Jupiter Trine Saturn
The trine of Jupiter and Saturn in the composite chart gives your relationship a steady quality that is quite enviable. You go on from day to day, avoiding most extremes of mood. You can depend on each other always being there. Both of you have the ability to accept each other for what you are and tolerate each other's foibles.
When you have to plan together for the future, you are equally careful without being overcautious. You act only after weighing all the factors, and you usually act at the right time, for your sense of timing together is excellent.
Regardless of the original goals of your relationship, if you take advantage of these abilities, you should be better able to ride out the difficult times than many other couples.
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
The conjunction of the Moon and Jupiter in a composite chart is a very favorable indication for any kind of personal relationship. You feel warm toward each other, and you can express your feelings easily and with enthusiasm.
At the same time, you respect each other's emotions. You feel quite protective of your partner and try to keep him or her from being emotionally hurt by others. You have a great deal of respect for each other's freedom and individual rights.
When disputes do arise, you will try to deal with them in a very high-minded manner. You will discuss the issues openly and try to resolve them in a way that is fair to both of you.

Moon Conjunct Mars
The conjunction of composite Moon and composite Mars indicates that you arouse very strong feelings in each other, but by itself it does not indicate whether they are good or bad feelings.
In a love relationship, for example, this aspect indicates that you will have a very strong emotional involvement. The relationship will probably stir up both positive and negative emotions in both of you.
If your relationship is basically good, you will simply experience a heightened emotional involvement, although with a greater tendency to quarrel. But if your relationship is not otherwise very sound, it will be destroyed by the fighting that this aspect produces.
One of the strong points of this aspect is that in a sexual relationship it creates a good deal of sexual energy.
Moon Square Ascendant
The square of composite Moon and Ascendant places great emphasis on emotional fulfillment within a relationship. This is a relationship that will get nowhere without strong emotional interaction between you. The important point is that your backgrounds give you compatible attitudes about the world.
This relationship will very likely cause each of you to be very attached to elements in your past, so it is important that these be elements that bring you together rather than drive you apart. Your overall compatibility is the only way to judge this. At any rate, watch out for unconscious attitudes from your past that affect the way you get along together now. Live in the here and now with each other, and do not let the past get in your way.
If your relationship is not running smoothly, people around you will find out very quickly. Your emotions as a couple are very quickly transmitted to others, even without any particular idea of conciliating them. You both are more concerned with the relationship between you at all levels than with how it looks to others.
Mars Conjunct Jupiter
The conjunction of Mars and Jupiter in the composite chart denotes a relationship that has a great deal of energy, either physical or psychological. You like to be active and to do things together. Some couples may work this energy out by participating in sports together, and others may do so by sharing work. One thing is clear: whatever you do together will be successful. Also, you approach whatever you do together with optimism and the expectation of success, which aids you in accomplishing your objectives.
The Mars-Jupiter conjunction creates a relationship that favors ego-expression; that is, you can do what you really want to do, and you each can be the kind of person you really want to be.
In a sexual relationship, this aspect helps to make the physical expression of your love good and satisfying. Sexual expression acts as a solid basis for the whole relationship, and yet it does not remain the only positive quality. It seems as though everything you do together works out for the best.
Jupiter Square Ascendant
Normally, the square of composite Jupiter and Ascendant is a good aspect. It helps to make a relationship work so that the two of you can further each other's chosen path in life rather than get in the way of it. This is accomplished in two ways.
On the one hand, the two of you have some understanding of what you are doing with your lives, at least as concerns each other. And in addition, you also know how to work together so that you support and further each other's plans.
On the other hand, this aspect makes it easy for you to reinforce each other in your intimate personal lives. You are emotionally supportive and try to help each other through difficult times, including periods of emotional problems.
However, problems can sometimes arise, and if they do, many of the good effects of the Ascendant-Jupiter square are then reversed. Instead of supporting each other's egos and aiding each other in your life courses, one of you takes advantage of the other, who may have to play second fiddle to the first partner's ego-trip.
Moon Conjunct Mars
The conjunction of composite Moon and composite Mars indicates that you arouse very strong feelings in each other, but by itself it does not indicate whether they are good or bad feelings.
In a love relationship, for example, this aspect indicates that you will have a very strong emotional involvement. The relationship will probably stir up both positive and negative emotions in both of you.
If your relationship is basically good, you will simply experience a heightened emotional involvement, although with a greater tendency to quarrel. But if your relationship is not otherwise very sound, it will be destroyed by the fighting that this aspect produces.
One of the strong points of this aspect is that in a sexual relationship it creates a good deal of sexual energy.
Moon Square Ascendant
The square of composite Moon and Ascendant places great emphasis on emotional fulfillment within a relationship. This is a relationship that will get nowhere without strong emotional interaction between you. The important point is that your backgrounds give you compatible attitudes about the world.
This relationship will very likely cause each of you to be very attached to elements in your past, so it is important that these be elements that bring you together rather than drive you apart. Your overall compatibility is the only way to judge this. At any rate, watch out for unconscious attitudes from your past that affect the way you get along together now. Live in the here and now with each other, and do not let the past get in your way.
If your relationship is not running smoothly, people around you will find out very quickly. Your emotions as a couple are very quickly transmitted to others, even without any particular idea of conciliating them. You both are more concerned with the relationship between you at all levels than with how it looks to others.
Venus Conjunct Uranus
With Venus conjunct Uranus in the composite chart, you will have to keep certain points in mind in order to get the most out of your relationship.
If this is a sexual relationship, it is very likely that your feelings for each other arose suddenly. But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move.
A relationship like this shakes your established thought patterns and gives you both the opportunity to find something new in yourselves.
This relationship may very well change your life. Give yourselves the freedom to go where it takes you.

Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus conjunct Pluto in the composite chart signifies the power of love as a transforming agent. In this relationship, whether it is a friendship or a love affair, you are seeking something more than love in the ordinary sense. Consequently, everything about your being together becomes extremely important.
In a sexual relationship, physical lovemaking is approached with an intensity that can make the experience very powerful and beautiful.
At any rate this is not likely to be a casual relationship. You will be intensely involved with each other. Love can be transformed into a power struggle if one or both of you tries to use the relationship as a tool for manipulating the other. The victim is powerless to do anything about it, and a strange love-hate tension is set up. When such a situation finally explodes, it can be disastrous.
Obviously this is not a relationship to play with. You must enter into it with serious intentions of making something good of it. You will both have great power over each other, so use it well.
Uranus Conjunct Pluto
The conjunction of composite Uranus and Pluto is quite common in the charts of people born in the middle of the 1960s.
In a composite chart, this aspect indicates that there are times of great change in your relationship.
Wherever this aspect falls in the composite chart is an area in which the two of you must display considerable flexibility and willingness to adapt. If you try to resist the changes that must come in your relationship, you will experience an upheaval that will make it very difficult for your relationship to survive. On the other hand, if you can adapt and accept the challenges, your relationship will be revitalized and renewed. Pluto means death to the old order, but it also means the creative birth of the new. You must learn to look forward to this change.

[thePet]

I may or may not have completely exposed myself to you now

well you sure have exposed yourself to me

your charts together are very similar to bradleys and mine..

all the parts are there to make it just stormy enough...to still be fun!
and petra..so tough til you get to her cancers
i will be back to read more later for sure..must take boy to school now
soo glad someone is into the planets with me